Thursday, August 23, 2007
.License to Wed.
Caught License to Wed yesterday after training. I was praying hard that this better be interesting because I was damn tired and a comfortable cinema chair will most likely be enough for me to feel sleepy. Fortunate enough, I enjoyed the show( despite the damn bad reviews I read all over the web ) as it reminded me of how love can be so awesome yet so bitter at times.
From the film, I realised how truly loving somebody is like.
1. Accept her flaws. Constantly remind yourself that you like her for who she is anyway.
2. Nobody is 100% compatible. Give and take. You don't live in fairytale.
3. When you love the person whole-heartedly, you naturally wont be able to think of any suitable substitutes that can replace her. She is the one and only, even with her occasional terrible mood swings that might irritate/upset you and ruin your day.
4. Never tell your partner:" You can find somebody better." If she has chosen to be with you, you should think you are the best. Saying something like that is not noble. It is hurting.
5. You do anything for love. You can be irrational. You can be damn unreasonable. You can find yourself acting damn silly on hindsight.
6. Never take your partner for granted. Never ever realise the importance only when you lose her. Sometimes, you might not be so fortunate to get her back.
7. Don't be stingy on confessing how much you love her and want her well.
8. Respect. Let her know she is so important in your life. Involve her in your decision making instead of others.
9. Never keep secrets from each other. Trust, and not disappoint her. Communicate more!
10. Always reflect on how you can love her better, and act upon them! You always want your partner to be the happiest person on earth anyway.
One can always say you shouldn't do so much for love. You should spend more time focusing on achieving your ambitions, on your studies etc.. but one day, when you truly find that person, you know you will put aside many of your priorities just to make her happy. Of course, that also means working damn hard aiming for a more comfortable life for your loved ones.
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9:15 AM
